The quick answer
Plan on six to twelve months from the first serious conversation to the day you are settled in the smaller home. Only a small part of that is fixed. The legal stages are short and predictable: a status certificate must arrive within 10 days. Closing typically runs thirty to ninety days after the sale is firm. What stretches is everything before that, deciding on a destination, sorting decades of contents and getting the family to agree. Families who start the sorting early almost always move on their own terms rather than to someone else's deadline.
Part of the Markham Downsizing Guide, our complete guide to this topic.
The short answer
For a home a family has lived in for decades, plan on six to twelve months from the first serious conversation to the day the smaller place feels like home.
That surprises people, because the visible parts of a move are fast. Listing a house takes an afternoon. A closing takes a morning at a lawyer’s office. What takes the time is everything around it. Almost none of that is real estate.
It helps to separate the stages that run on deadlines from the stages that expand to fill whatever time you give them. Our Markham downsizing guide covers the costs and the destinations. This post is about the calendar.
Stage 1: deciding, which has no fixed length at all
This is the stage nobody counts. It is often the longest. It runs from the first time somebody says the word downsizing to the point where the household has actually agreed on a destination.
In the client stories our team publishes, this stage looks different every time. One family started planning as their sons approached college and university. Another had been in the same home for five decades before deciding to move closer to grandchildren. A third was responding to a place opening at a retirement residence, which compressed everything.
There is no way to put a number on this stage and no reason to rush it. What is worth doing is making the decision explicit when you reach it. Writing down the destination, the rough season you want to move in and who is involved in the decision turns an open ended conversation into a plan with a start date.
Stage 2: sorting the contents, usually the real bottleneck
If one stage runs long, it is this one.
A house held for thirty or forty years holds more than anyone estimates. The work is emotional rather than logistical. Deciding what happens to furniture nobody in the family has room for, to photographs, to a workshop or a garden shed, takes a different kind of energy from packing boxes.
Plan in months, not weekends. A workable pace for most families is one room or one category a week, started well before the house is listed. Two reasons to begin early:
- A house with less in it presents better and photographs better, so the sorting helps the sale.
- If you leave it until after the sale is firm, the entire job lands inside the closing period, alongside everything else.
Professional help exists for this, from move managers to estate sale specialists. Using it is a sensible decision rather than an admission of defeat. Our post on the senior downsizing checklist sets out the order we walk clients through.
Stage 3: preparing and listing, two to six weeks
Once the decision is made and sorting is underway, preparing a long held home for sale usually runs two to six weeks.
What sits inside that window depends entirely on the house. Decluttering and cleaning, minor repairs, paint, sometimes flooring or a dated light fixture. Then photography, floor plans and the listing itself. Older Markham homes often need a little more here than a ten year old house. The decision about what is worth spending on is one to make with your agent rather than alone, because not every improvement comes back in the price.
Stage 4: the sale, which is the part nobody can promise
How long a home takes to sell depends on property type, price, condition and season. Anyone who gives you a guaranteed number is guessing. What we can tell you is how to think about it.
Price does most of the work. A home priced to the evidence in its own neighbourhood sells in a normal timeframe for that neighbourhood. A home priced to a number the family needs rather than to the market sits and a home that sits eventually sells for less than a correctly priced one would have.
That is why we start with what the comparable sales actually say, even when it is not the number anyone wanted to hear. A free home valuation is where that conversation begins and our guide to Markham neighbourhoods downsizers consider covers how different parts of the city behave.
Stage 5: the legal stages, which are short and predictable
Here the calendar becomes firm and this is the part most people worry about unnecessarily.
| Stage | How long | What sets it |
|---|---|---|
| Offer accepted to firm | A few days to two weeks | Your conditions, typically financing and inspection or the status certificate review on a condo |
| Status certificate delivery | Up to 10 days | The condo corporation must deliver within 10 days of the request and the fee, which is capped at $100 including taxes |
| Firm to closing | Usually 30 to 90 days | Negotiated between you and the other party, so this is a lever you control |
| Closing day itself | One day | Your lawyer registers the transfer and releases the funds |
The closing period is negotiable, which matters more for a downsizing move than for a typical sale. If you need ninety days to empty a house, ask for ninety days. Buyers frequently accept a longer close when the rest of the offer works for them.
If you are buying a condo, add the status certificate properly. Ten days for the corporation plus a few days for your lawyer to review it means roughly two weeks inside your condition period, not two days.
Stage 6: moving and then settling
The move itself is a day or two. Settling takes longer than people expect, particularly after decades in one house and it is worth allowing for that rather than treating the closing as the finish line.
What actually makes a downsizing move run late
In our experience it is rarely the market and almost never the lawyers. It is one of these:
- The destination was never actually decided. Everything downstream waits on it.
- The sorting started after the sale went firm. The hardest job lands in the busiest weeks.
- The family had not really agreed. One adult child thinks it is too soon and the conversation reopens every few weeks.
- The price was set by need rather than by evidence. The home sits and then the timeline belongs to the market instead of to you.
Every one of those is fixable months ahead of time and very difficult to fix inside the final six weeks. That is the honest case for starting earlier than feels necessary. If you want to talk through what your own timeline would look like, that conversation costs nothing and carries no obligation and you can also read how we work on our downsizing service page first.
Common questions
How long does downsizing take from start to finish?
For a long held family home, six to twelve months from the first serious conversation to being settled is a realistic plan. Moves that happen faster are usually ones where the contents were already sorted or where the family had settled on a destination well in advance. The paperwork stages are short. It is the deciding and the sorting that set the length.
How long does it take to sell a home in Markham?
Time on the market varies by property type, price and season, so no single number applies to every home. What you can plan around is the rest of the sequence: preparing a long held home for sale usually takes two to six weeks. Once an offer is accepted and firm, closing typically falls thirty to ninety days later depending on what you negotiate.
How long does a status certificate take when I buy a condo?
The condo corporation must deliver it within 10 days of receiving the request and the payment. The fee itself is capped at $100 including taxes. Your lawyer then needs a few days to review it. Build roughly two weeks into your condition period rather than assuming it arrives immediately.
What part of downsizing takes the longest?
Sorting the contents, almost every time. A home held for thirty or forty years holds far more than anyone estimates. The decisions are emotional rather than logistical, so they cannot be rushed the way packing can. Families who begin this months before listing rather than after selling have a much calmer move.
Can a downsizing move be done in under three months?
Yes. Sometimes it has to be, for example when a retirement residence place becomes available or when health changes. It is achievable if you accept help with the contents, take a shorter preparation period on the house and are flexible about the destination. It is harder on everyone, so it is worth choosing that pace rather than arriving at it by delay.
Should I start sorting before or after the house sells?
Before. Sorting is the one stage that has no deadline until suddenly it has a very firm one. Starting early also tends to improve the sale, because a house with less in it shows better. It also means the closing period is used for moving rather than for decisions you have been putting off.
Keep exploring
- Markham Village neighbourhood guide The original town centre, with older housing and genuinely deep lots.
- Cornell neighbourhood guide Porches at the front, garages down the lane and a hospital at the edge.
- Downsizing Forty years of a house and a sequence that has to work in the right order.
- Estate Sales A sale run by an executor, usually during the hardest year of a family's life.
Sources
- Condo Authority of Ontario, Status certificates
- Condo Authority of Ontario, Buying a resale condo
- Ontario.ca, Calculating land transfer tax
- Real Estate Council of Ontario, Buyer's checklist
Figures and rules were checked against these sources on the date this post was published or last updated.
Not advice. This post is general information only. It is not legal, tax, mortgage or investment advice. Rules and figures change, so confirm the details for your own situation with a qualified professional before acting.
Market data. Any prices quoted are general information for the period stated. They are not an appraisal or an opinion of value for any specific property.